5 Ways to Celebrate National Reading Month with Your Child

1. Read at least one book a day

Have your child read alone or read aloud to them. If you’re feeling extra, do both!

2. Visit the library

Find a cozy spot at the library and a stack of books and go crazy!

3. Donate a book

Donate a gently used or new book to a school, local shelter, or Little Free Library

4. Celebrate Dr. Seuss

Celebrate this incredible author by having a mini party and reading as many Dr. Seuss books as you can!

5. Find a reading activity nearby

Find a story time or reading activity at your local bookstore or library.

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Share the Love

Last year the kids and I cut and colored a ton of Valentines and passed them out at a local assisted living center and the local fire station.

This year, I am excited to be partnering with a local preschool and 2nd grade classroom who will be cutting and coloring these Valentines to be passed out on February 14th.

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This year the plan is to make over 100 Valentines and pass them out at an assisted living center, fire station, and police station!

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Do you want to participate?

It’s totally FREE and you can simply print the images below. Then, let your child cut and color them. You and your child can then choose who you want to deliver them to!

Don’t forget to share the love on Instagram and Facebook! Be sure to tag @jessicasimonbooks to let us know how you plan to share the love this Valentine’s Day!

HOW TO GET THE FREE ACTIVITY:

1.      Right click the images below

2.      Click Save image as...

3.      Save each file to your desktop and then open the files to print

Let the cutting and coloring begin!

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Heart Sheet #2

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Give the Gift of a Good Book

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You can hear and see it for the first time on video! Please check it out and if you like what you hear order your copy online!

The book is available on my publisher's site LuluAmazon, Barnes and Noble and signed copies available right here on my site! 

Amazon.com reader reviews:

“Such a sweet book to read to your little ones.”

“Such a precious message to share with little ones! Quickly became a family favorite!”

“Love this book! My son and I read it together for a bedtime story. Especially close to my heart since I adopted a few kiddos.”

“This book is adorable! We have read this book every night to our kids and they absolutely love it! This is a must have book!”

The Three Trimesters of Adoption

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National Adoption Month is this month and I have been thinking a lot about adoption and how it has changed my life.

First, I am so thankful for adoption. This seems fairly obvious because adoption brought us our oldest son and the privilege of becoming parents for the first time. I could not imagine life without him in it and I am thankful everyday for his birth mom who made the toughest decision of her life and chose us to be his parents.

Second, adopting our son opened my eyes in so many ways to the situations and environments that children are brought into. National Adoption Month is a month to shine light on the needs for permanent families for children in foster care.

For me, it is also a month to shine light on those families who are thinking about adopting or in the process of adopting a child from any background (foster, international, domestic).

We went through an agency that worked exclusively with domestic infant adoption so much of what I write about and have experiences with is from that perspective. However, from speaking to other people who adopted in different ways a lot of the paperwork and emotional aspects are similar.

I like to break the adoption process down by trimesters because I feel like most everyone has an understanding of pregnancy but less people have an understanding of adoption. I also think people assume adoption is easy because there is a need for adoptive parents.

Let me assure you, it is not easy and that is by design. Although, it is very hard to understand the design while you are going through the mountain of paperwork. The point of the paperwork is so a child does not end up in a home with people who have less than loving intentions. Even the tremendous amount of paperwork fails a child sometimes.

Bottom line, the paperwork and process can suck and adoptive parents shouldn't be ashamed to say that. Just like a pregnant woman shouldn't be ashamed to complain about her sore back or exhaustion. I've complained about both. #sorrynotsorry

So, if you are considering adoption, you know people who are thinking about adopting or in the process of adopting a child here are a few things to consider.

1. The adoption process and paperwork is incredibly daunting and difficult. Just like the first trimester of a pregnancy the paperwork process is new and will be very overwhelming. The adoptive parents may not be creating a human life but they are building the foundation that will eventually lead to a child and both situations take an incredible amount of care and energy.  

2. Waiting is the hardest part. The adoptive parents have completed the paperwork. They are feeling pretty good and are anxiously awaiting the call that will change their lives forever. This is when pregnant woman want to nest and just like them, adoptive parents want to nest too. They want to ready their home for a child. But when will the child come? The dream of adopting a child is closer than before, but no one really knows how close. The couple feels like if they buy too many things in preparation for a child, it could for some reason jinx the entire process. The waiting and wondering is intense.

3. Just because they have been matched, it doesn't mean that everything is final. The legal system needs to run its course. This means that a few things need to happen: The birth parents do not change their mind, birth parent parental rights need to be terminated and the legal adoption is finalized. This is like the third trimester of a pregnancy because the couple starts to feel the pressure and anxiety over welcoming and/or meeting their child for the first time. Except this trimester for adoptive parents is WAY longer than three months.

Adoptive parents are also running every single what-if scenario over and over in their heads. The hope is that the child that has been growing in their hearts for so many months is legally theirs and the weight of paperwork and the legal system will be lifted. That's the hope, but adoptive parents can also experience loss. Birth parents can change their minds, and the window for which they can cancel the adoption is different in each state.

My advice and I am quoting my husband: "Stay cautiously optimistic." Don't let the process take the joy out of what you are doing. You are building a beautiful family.

 

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